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The Motherlist

Your private network for raising kids in San Francisco.

Caregiver leads, school intel, support groups, and curated city events from moms who have already done the digging.

SF photograph by Vadim Paripa via Unsplash

$200

Annual membership

Private

Vetted mom-to-mom network

SF-first

Neighborhoods, schools, sitters, events

The premise

Because raising kids here should come with better notes.

The Motherlist is designed for the mom who wants trusted local answers without combing through public feeds, stale directories, or group chats that went quiet three years ago.

Real SF

The city rhythm behind the care leads, playdates, and school decisions.

Aerial photograph of families and children at Helen Diller Playground in Dolores Park, San Francisco
Helen Diller Playground at Dolores Park. Photo by Nelson Minar, CC BY-SA 2.0.
01

Park days without the group-text spiral.

Playground logistics, low-lift meetups, stroller routes, parking notes, and snack-plan reality.

02

Care leads with neighborhood context.

Nannies, babysitters, preschool notes, and K-12 conversations organized around how SF families actually move.

03

Small circles for the questions that need nuance.

Stage-based chats for the messy, specific, practical parts of raising kids in the city.

The member lists

Three private lists. One sharper way through the city.

01

The Care List

Nanny leads, babysitters, preschool notes, K-12 intel, and parent referrals.

02

The Group Chat

Stage, neighborhood, identity, and support groups for the questions that need context.

03

The Weekend List

Relevant SF events for families, moms, babies, toddlers, school-age kids, and the occasional night out.

Inside the network

High-signal local help, organized by what moms actually need.

The Care List

Caregiver and school leads with parent context.

Search by neighborhood, age, schedule, school stage, and referral type, then save the leads worth calling.

Member home

A calmer dashboard for the five-minute window.

The first screen is built around action: ask, find, RSVP, and save. No hunting through a legacy portal while a kid asks for the blue cup.

Start with the founder list
Today Inner Richmond
Care

Three babysitters available for weekend evenings

Saved by moms in Richmond, Noe, and Cole Valley.

Support

New postpartum dinner group forming

Small-group chat, moderated, starts next Thursday.

Weekend

Three family plans that do not require scrolling

Curated for age, neighborhood, weather, and snack logistics.

The Weekend List

Curated San Francisco events, without the scroll spiral.

Friday

Mom night at a neighborhood wine bar

No kids, no pitch deck, no explanation needed.

Saturday

Preschool-friendly museum morning

Timed entry notes, stroller tips, nearby coffee.

Sunday

Golden Gate Park family picnic

Stage-based meetups for babies, toddlers, and K-5.

Membership

$50 founding member access.

Become a founding member for $50. Standard annual membership is $200.

$50founding member

  • Limited founding member pricing
  • Caregiver, preschool, and K-12 lead lists
  • Support groups and neighborhood chats
  • Curated SF events and weekend plans
  • Private notes from moms who have already done the digging
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Founding membership

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